Dec 14

Valerie Steimle is a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (“Mormon” woman). She has been writing as a family advocate for the past 20years. She is the mother of nine children living insouthern Alabama and is the author of four books and a weekly newspaper column, Thoughts from the Heart.

As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (or Mormons) we focus a lot of our attention in church attendance. The more we attend church together as a family, the more we can learn important communication skills and ponder fundamental beliefs and doctrines. Church attendance helps families to be a better family.

church attendanceFor example, according to a U.S. News and World Report on September 9, 1996 called “Can Churches Save America,” “the divorce rate for regular churchgoers is 18 percent; for those who attend services less than once a year, 34 percent.”

Religious beliefs help keep a perspective in life which points us in the right direction and encourages and gives us hope through our trials.  Some families consider going to church a waste of time as they cannot feel how it will help.  But if you stop and think about it, there are great things church attendance can do for families.

Attending a church or synagogue service consistently with your family makes the difference between wonderful relationships and troubled times in family life; it’s n ot that everything will be perfect; it’s that a faith-based life adds a dimension and a power that enters a family in relation to the other.  Belief in God empowers; revelation through prayer guides. Each certainly helps the cause of keeping the family together.  From my own personal experience, I have seen how attending church regularly and abiding by its precepts can help pull families through difficult times. Read the rest of this entry »

Dec 2

Valerie Steimle has been writing as a family advocate for the past 20 years. She is the mother of nine children living in southern Alabama and is the author of four books and a weekly newspaper column, Thoughts from the Heart.

Appropriate Media and the Christian Family

If you’ve ever watched a three-year-old after he’s watched a kickboxing, beat ‘em up kind of TV show, you know that watching Christian Familytelevision has an effect on children.  Children play from what they know from experience.  If all they know is violence and fighting, then that’s what they play.

If married couples continually watch TV shows about adultery, suspicious relationships, and divorce, their thinking is manipulated into imagining all kinds of things, which they never would have thought of without watching TV.  Whether it’s forming moral values or learning how to save someone’s life, a television in almost every family’s home causes some damage, or does some good. As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we are encouraged to watch only the best of television programming.
From an LDS apostle of the Lord, M. Russell Ballard told us back in April 1989: Read the rest of this entry »